show me where i asked???

carrying someone and entering their mind is not rape– and even if it was, where are all the people accusing rey of being a rapist, since she entered kylos mind as well? yall are completely silent about that though. wonder if it has anything to do with rey being a woman?

and if kylo knocking out a hostile and powerful entity by force pushing her is abuse (especially when she explicitly states that she wants to FUCKING KILL HIM, and will if given the chance) then where are all the people railing against rey for slashing him apart and leaving him to die???

but no, its just kylo being abusive and a rapist. fighting during a time of war is not abuse. entering someones mind is not rape. the whole “kylo being an abuser/rapist” logic is so intrinsically misogynistic that it hurts sometimes. IN EVERY INSTANCE OF KYLO ENGAGING WITH REY, HE WAS ACTING IN DEFENSE. 

no one ever calls rey abusive or a rapist because she’s a fucking woman, and yet she does the exact same things to kylo that he does to her (usually even more so/more violently). give me one other reason no one EVER calls rey the same things people call kylo, besides the fact that rey is a woman and women can do absolutely nothing wrong, and are only ever victims. right, antis? right, anon i never asked for the opinion of?

this isn’t to say that women who are strong CANT be abused or raped. it’s that your (antis) logic is centered around the fact that kylo kidnapped rey for information during a time of war, brought her literally no harm (in the novelization it explicitly states that during the interrogation she’s crying from the memory of being alone, not from the pain of the act– not to mention kylo saying he doesnt want to hurt her at all), and then fought her. in every single instance rey was the aggressor/potential aggressor. “kylo is the only one at fault” mentality completely fucking ignores that women can be abusers as well.

tldr: 1) get the fuck out of my inbox because i never asked for your input, 2) if antis actually cared about abuse and rape they wouldn’t ignore all the questionable acts on rey’s part in regards to kylo, 3) saying reylo is abusive twists the actual meaning of abuse and silences real victims when you say kylo’s actions (IN A FUCKING WAR CONTEXT) constitute genuine abuse, and 4) reducing rey’s character to a victim of kylo’s despite him explicitly stating he doesnt want to hurt her AT ALL, and rey beating the shit out of him, completely ignores the fact that women can also be abusive and that men can be victims as well.

am i saying that reylo is abusive because REY abused kylo? no. am i saying that antis twist the actual meaning of abuse in all of its forms to fit their ridiculous agenda? yes. 

you have access to google. fucking use it before you try to start something.